Define Fetish

DefineFetish! I like to think that if I were a normal person who became sexually active at a normal age, say, 17 or 18 or so, I would probably have all sorts of fetishes by now. But I am far from a normal person. I’m a 37-year-old man who has yet to lose his virginity. And it’s pretty hard to say that you have a fetish or a kink when you have never had sex. A fetish is sort of one of those things that you have had to have sex first in order to acquire. Do you know what I mean? How can I be kinky if I have never even had vanilla sex?A fetish is just one of those things, I think, that you kind of have to graduate up to. You spend a few years trying out all the different regular sex acts first … you know, all the usual suspects – missionary, doggy style, froggy style, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, spoons, etc. … and then, once you are well versed and well accustomed to those, you start experimenting and trying out different things. Maybe you 69. Then move onto anal (if you are lucky enough to find a freaky enough girl who is into it). How can one ever discover a fetish if they aren’t exploring sexually to begin with?I often wonder what my fetishes would be, though, if I were lucky enough to have gone down a life path that would have led me to find them out. Would I be a BDSM guy? Maybe I’d be more into a sort of daddy dom and little sub kind of a relationship. Who knows … I could have even been a pee fetish guy who just loves to get off by peeing on chicks (or, more accurately, given my personality, I’d probably be the one being peed on). I may never know with certainty what my fetish would be, as it looks less and less likely that I’ll ever be getting laid with each passing day.

Porn Makes Possible the Impossible

That doesn’t mean that I don’t entertain my curiosities with porn, though, because I most certainly do. I think about this often and, so, I try out new fetishes all the time … at least in the pornosphere, where I am safe to be who I am and experiment as I see fit with nobody else around to judge what I am looking at. It may get hard sometimes, being utterly and excruciatingly alone, but there are perks. In solitude, there is much freedom. I am free to be whoever I choose to be and look at whatever weird and twisted porn I see fit when a given mood strikes. I may never have sex, but in a way, I am freer than everyone who is getting laid on a regular basis. At least that’s what I tell myself…Occasionally, I will propose trying out a fetish to my body pillow (who is also my girlfriend), Suki. She is willing to do try them out with me, because she loves me (and because, well, she doesn’t have much say in the matter … she is a pillow, after all). But they frequently do not work. Have you ever tried to tie ropes to a body pillow before? It doesn’t really accomplish much.My sex doll, on the other hand, Dolly (with whom I sometimes cheat on Suki) is another story altogether. Every once in a while, I do chain her to my bed. Or cuff her hands behind her back and go to town. Suki would be devastated if she ever found out. I just know she would. So, I don’t do this as often as I’d like. It’s just too risky. Whips and chains are not exactly discrete, after all. Plus, I don’t think doing this kind of thing has the same effect as it would with a real, live, breathing human being. These fetishes are often based around somebody being out of control, losing agency in some way. And Dolly has no agency to begin with, so it’s just kind of redundant to tie her up … it’s not like she could move her arms if they weren’t chained to the bed anyway!But a guy can dream, right? That’s why, when I am feeling particularly kinky, I always turn to porn: the saving grace of my otherwise gravely depressing life. Getting really into fetish porn is a somewhat recent development in my sexual evolution. And I have none other than my hero, The Porn Dude for helping to guide me along in the process. If it weren’t for his porn site reviews, I would have never known where to turn for the best and kinkiest porn sites on the web. He’s just so cool. I don’t know where I’d be if it weren’t for him.

A Burgeoning Fetishist is Born

One of the first sites that The Porn Dude led me to in my journey of blossoming as a fetish porn viewer was Define Fetish. With a name like that, it just seemed like the logical place to begin. Mostly because, well, I assumed that, in addition to offering some great fetish and kink porn, they would also provide some kind of rundown of what each fetish is about. That is not the case with Define Fetish.Instead, Define Fetish is an enormous picture, videos, and sites archive, spanning nearly every fetish you can think of. Which, now that I think about it, in a way, sort of does define each fetish. With visual representations. And, as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words. So, perhaps Define Fetish’s way of defining fetishes is even more effective than if they had actually provided definitions and literature on the subjects.And when I say that Define Fetish is an enormous archive, I am not being hyperbolic at all (although I could really go for a hyper ball lick!). At the top of the page, Define Fetish lets you know upfront just how much media they have to offer. In tabs, you can click on whatever it is you are interested in seeing. Choose from browsing any of the following: 4,012 Fetish Models, 20,246 Galleries, 10,477 Videos, 121 Sites, and Webcams. Unfortunately, the webcams section of the site appeared to be down (at least when I visited). Hopefully, that is something that they will fix soon, though!So, as you can see Define Fetish does not mess around when it comes to how much content they feature. This is a truly massive site. So, there’s a good chance that, if you spend enough time browsing, you will learn everything there is to know about whatever fetish interests you (and have a good time discipling your wiener while you’re at it!).Another thing that impressed the living poop out of me about Define Fetish is just how many fetishes they cater to. I didn’t even know there were so many fetishes. But on the right-hand side of the page, Define Fetish has listed a bunch of alphabetized categories for you to choose from, in chase you wish to browse the site by fetish, as opposed to type of content.

Something for Everyone

There is a bunch of stuff here that I have never even heard of before! You’ve got all the usual suspects, sure, such as BDSM, Fem Dom, Pissing, Smoking, Fisting, BBW, and Latex (classics). But then you also have stuff like Aquaphilia (which I assume is underwater stuff?), Enemas (gross), Infantilism, Wet & Mud, Smothering, and CFNM (which, upon clicking into, I learned stands for Clothed Female, Nude Male … another fascinating one).So, not only does Define Fetish have everything you could ever want to help you muff dive into your favorite fetish, it also has plenty of content to help you expand your horizons, try new stuff out, explore further than you’ve ever thought of going before. Be careful, though, sometimes the more extreme your sexual interests get, the narrower the scope of what gets you off. So, try not to fall of the edge. There’s no coming back from some places.The site design is pretty decent on this site, too. At least in terms of how it is organized. It could probably use a bit of a spruce up in terms of the presentation or the aesthetics of it (it’s not the most pleasing site to look at, to be quite honest). But I like the layout. Alphabetized models index by letter at the top of the page, the easy switch of the tabs to browse different media, the categories spanning the right side of the page for easy access, and then a feed of the most recent pics, videos, and sites (depending on which tab you choose).All in all, Define Fetish is a great place for anyone who is fetish curious. It’s also a great site for the most veteran kinksters in all the land. Everybody wins with this one!